Instant Love for Dalí

15 Nov

“Have you ever just stopped to look at her, and your heart overfills with joy?” I asked my husband the other night.

Her bright, innocent eyes; her playful, yet endearing attitude; her overpowering love and cuddles – it all makes me stop dead in my tracks and adore her.

One may think that I’m talking about a child, and in a way I am. She’s my furry child – the one and only, Dalí.

There have been a million different times in a million different ways that my life has changed in a moment. Dalí has by far been the most positive one in recent years.

On a cold December night, my husband and I walked into the vet’s office where Dalí was being boarded by her foster parents. She came running up to us, her big floppy ears in tow and gave us a big, warm (smelly) kiss. When the volunteer from the adoption agency left the room for us to bond with Dalí and talk about adopting her, I leaned over to my husband and said “I love her.” We signed the papers and were on our way to being new parents. Seeing as neither of us ever owned a dog, we didn’t know what to expect.

Never owned a dog, you say? Ruh roh!

You can say that again. We were estranged to the notion of how to take care of this adorable creature. How often do you take her out to potty? How often do you feed her? Does she sleep with us or stay in the crate? Where is the user manual? Ahhhhhhhhhhh!

It’s OK, Mom! I’ll just sleep while you figure it out!

It’s a good thing we didn’t care about our carpets because there were plenty of accidents to begin with. Oh wait, we did care about our brand-new carpets because we had just bought this house a few months prior? Well, that’s the beauty of love. You stop caring about the materialistic garbage in the world, and you focus on what moves the meter of your heart from empty to full.

Even our 9-year-old cat Scotch instantly fell in love with Dalí. Most people we know forget that we have a cat because she goes into super-stealth mode and never comes out of hiding. I’ll never forget how shocked I was to see Scotch greet Dalí with such curiosity, being like such a normal cat. They have become best pals and sometimes I find them lounging together.

It’s been almost a year that we’ve had Dalí, and since then I’ve grown tremendously – something I never thought would be possible with the help of a pet. As I mentioned earlier, it didn’t start out as all rainbows and sunshine. We were off to a rocky start, so we sent the trainer Mailey at the Atlanta Humane Society a cry-for-help email, pleading her for advice on what to do about the accidents and the pulling on the leash. The pee stains kept appearing and my arm was almost out of socket from the leash-tugging. We were desperate. Mailey was a godsend, and I’m not embellishing here, folks. She not only helped us communicate with Dalí, but she also brought us together as a family. She taught me some life lessons too. With tears in her eyes on the last day of obedience class, she told us to be more like our dogs. Be in the present moment. Love unconditionally. Show kindness toward others. Mailey’s words of wisdom ring in my ears while I try to mirror Dalí’s zen-like behavior.

Within the last year, we’ve had a lot of tribulations in our life, but Dalí has always brought out the best in us. Finding love in an instant moment is a purely magical thing. And, c’mon, who can’t smile when they see ears like these?

The idea for this post came from the WordPress Weekly Writing Challenge: In An Instagram.

9 Responses to “Instant Love for Dalí”

  1. Samantha February 2, 2016 at 9:44 pm #

    Congratulations! I couldn’t imagine being without my dogs. They remind me to relax and cuddle regularly.

  2. Wanderingimages November 21, 2012 at 5:47 pm #

    Great blog post. I was never a dog person and then I got married and had children, so it was three against one. They won out and I learned to love our Pug who is not really little … this Pug has climbed mountains. One does learn to let go of the material things. I still like and want a nice house, but hey… The house will always be here, but will you? Wise words that I received from a wise man.

    • Prosey Rosey November 22, 2012 at 12:31 am #

      Those are great words to live by! It’s funny how convincing kids can be with pets…that’s how we adopted not just 1 but 2 kittens when I was a little girl. My dad couldn’t say no to us. And then a year ago it was my sweet hubby who couldn’t turn down Dali 🙂

  3. bigdogzola November 21, 2012 at 3:10 am #

    ….ruf ruf….nice work Dali! have trained your humans well…I’m sure your magic will long continue…Aroofs from across the pond in England. Ridgeback girl Zola x

    • Prosey Rosey November 21, 2012 at 10:09 am #

      Yes, Dali has had us trained from the moment we met her! You’re a beautiful dog, Zola! I’ll send your love to Dali 🙂

  4. eof737 November 16, 2012 at 9:53 pm #

    What a wonderful tribute and blessing. 😉

  5. Carrie @ Season It Already! November 16, 2012 at 10:18 am #

    This story warms my heart. Our fur children mean the world to us. I remember just weeks after I got my Sophie, telling my roommate at the time… Sometimes, I think about how I love her so much that I want to cry! It’s amazing how she’s changed my life.

    • Prosey Rosey November 16, 2012 at 1:11 pm #

      Aw, thank you Carrie! It’s amazing how much they overwhelm us with love and joy and they can’t even talk our language! PS – I love the name Sophie! How cute!

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